I, for instance, can' really make decisions when there are choices. I am scared of regretting what I chose. Therefore, I usually let people choose it for me and go along with it. That's not really smart or wise for me to do that but truth is I'm a worrywart by nature and I would keep weighing the pros & cons in my head. My mind would be fried by the end of the day and explode in a million pieces as a result. I don't wanna stress myself too much sometimes but it's something built in me. I am paranoid, easily nervous, prone to pangs of terror when things don't go the way I planned it exactly in my head. I cry easily, I tend to overthink and imagine the worse scenarios. But that's me. So I'll usually have heart to heart talks with people who are close to me. Really open up to them. People who know how I truly am and accept it. People who actually cares and understands the reason why I felt this way. People who will not find my thinking weird, but try to find ways to soothe me and calm me down. These people in my life are scarce. These people would be the ones I would treasure and not let go. These people are those whom I'll be willing to go the extra mile for, be it my help or to keep our r/s tight. Some know that they already are. Thanks for those hugs and kind words which always makes me feel better a million times. (:
I found these quotes which I've gotta agree with them.
There are two choices in life, to accept the conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them. - Dennis Waitley
You're the person who has to decide. Whether you'll do it or toss it aside, you're the person who makes up your mind. Whether you'll lead or linger behind. Whether you'll try for the goal that's afar. Or just be contented staying where you are. - Edgar A. Guest
Find this really inspiring. I'll try making decisions! Keyword is TRY.
In every single thing you do, you're choosing a direction. Your life is a product of choices. - Dr Kathleen Hall.
Bye!
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